Wednesday, 18 May 2016

Collaring Position Ko~lar

The collaring position or Ko~lar. A girl makes her way to the Master, melting to her knees at His feet, leaning firm rounded cheeks to rest upon soft heels, she raises her sculptured arms of beauty high above her lowered head, crossing her wrists while warm soft eyes are kept lowered in the deepest respect.

This is a step in the common collaring ritual of acquiring a slave. In some cities submission precedes the placing of the collar and in other cities submission follows the collar.



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Thursday, 12 May 2016

The Slave Journal

Most Masters will agree that all slaves-in-training should be encouraged to keep a written record of their thoughts, fantasies, and experiences.

The slave journal is usually the property of the slave but it is meant to be read by the Master.

Thus, the Master may require that the slave address the journal directly to her and that a special written form be followed.

For example, it is common for slaves to use the lower case when referring to themselves and to capitalize all references to the Master, i am writing this journal as You requested. And I hope it meets with Your approval." Or, they may be required to omit the first person pronoun altogether: "this slave is writing a journal as You requested."

Some Masters find the use of the possessive in reference to them highly offensive, as the Master does not belong to the slave. They feel it is more appropriate for a slave to speak of "the Master" than of "my Master." Holding to this pattern can result in some interesting linguistic difficulties, but greatly encourages mindfulness. It is to be used at the Master's discretion.

Entries should be made in the journal on a regular basis (anywhere from once a day to once a week has proved useful). The Master may wish to respond, verbally or in written form, to the entries.

At very least, the Master, will have a better insight, into the slave's thoughts and frame of mind.

Daily journal entries:

In many cases it may be beneficial to have a structured daily or weekly report to be written into the journal.
The exact specifications will vary based on the needs of the relationship dynamic, however some generally useful things you may wish to record in the journal are:

1] Dislike about the day.
2] Like about the day.
3] Recognition of the Masters effort and work in the relationship, potentially the favourite one.
4] Recognition of the slaves efforts, and services in the relationship, potentially the favourite one.
5] Also add if there was any resentment that occurred inside or outside of the relationship dynamic.
6] Thing the slave had to be proud about.
7] Way in which the slave improved, and/or maintained slaves self that day.
8] A statement of renewal and devotion to the relationship
9] Any ways in which the slave failed to complete an obligation.
10] Any obligations for the next day that are planned to be achieved by the slave.
11] Any special information that needs to be relayed based upon the specific needs of the power exchange dynamic.

This sort of journal can be a great tool to not only is it reflective and aware of ones day, but also to search for good and undesirable patterns between days and weeks.

These patterns can then be used to create a conscious intention for how one approaches their days in the future, by playing to their strengths, and working to reduce weaknesses.

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Wednesday, 11 May 2016

The slave collar

In a BDSM context, a collar is a device of any material worn by a person around the neck to indicate their slave or slave status in a BDSM relationship. A person wearing a collar to symbolize their relationship with another is said to be collared. Some people conduct formal "collaring ceremonies," which are regarded as effectively solemnizing their relationship in a similar way as a marriage ceremony and the collar having similar significance as a wedding ring. The standard form of a collar is a black leather band around the neck, often with metal D-rings added to allow the attachment of a leash, rope or other restraints; but to be more discreet in public, some people may wear an ordinary choker or jewellery necklace for the same symbolic purpose.

Collars may be used in role-playing games involving erotic humiliation because they have connotations of control and pet-like status, especially when worn with a leash.

Formal collar this collar which is often known as the slave collar, is the ultimate goal and final step in an M/s relationship.

A formal collar shows devotion, mutual respect, and expresses the fact that the Master and slave have the same ideals and desires.

In giving this collar, the Master shows His commitment to care for the slave, and will be responsible for her.

Being collared can mean many things to many different Masters and slaves, for some it is a new beginning in a journey, for others it is a step in the training process. It all depends on the Master you are with. Because all Masters, have different ways of doing things with His slave.

Acceptance of this collar by the slave, is an offering of her complete submission to her Master, she gives the whole girl to him, heart, mind body and soul, and trusts Him to with her life.

Here is some common ground when it comes to protocol:

A collar is given by a Master and is received by a slave.
A collared slave should be considered off-limits to all others.
A collar should only be removed by the Master at the end of the journey.
A collar isn’t something you collect.
A collar has definite meaning to both the Master and the slave.
A collar is something to be cherished and respected just like any other type of union. A collar is sacred.
The collar remains the property of the Master and should be given back in the event the journey ends.
A collar and the person wearing it should be treated with respect as a collar is not a toy.

The most important thing to remember in all of this is that a collar is something that you should treasure.

Some Masters may not even use what we all commonly think of as a collar, but they would rather use a definitive mark such as a permanent tattoo or a piercing some Masters even rather use jewellery.

A formal collar is often given at a ceremony in front of friends and other BDSM community members. It is a deeply emotional and heartfelt time for both Master and His slave, and it is an honour to be invited to such a ceremony.

A slave can also have a necklace that can be worn in the vanilla world as an every day collar that works with your slave’s personal clothing style and other jewellery, and won’t bring attention to what it is or look out of place the way a leather one would.
For a slave to have a collar and know what it means to feel it being placed around her neck to have it there all day to see it in the mirror, is all the reminder your slave needs to know and feel owned by her Master.

Basically, the best feeling a slave will have ever.

Be proud to have your Masters collar on always, as commitment is a vital part of any M/s relationship, and the giving and wearing of a collar brings forth the level of commitment and the depth of the relationship, between the Master and the slave. A collar is not a fashion accessory and should never be viewed as such.

What does it mean to you as a slave to be collared?
How did you get to the point of being collared?
How did you earn your collar?

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Tuesday, 10 May 2016

Welcome to our slave on line Training Course

Good day at the moment we have a few submissive on line training courses that start from basics and are not overwhelming to a new submissive that wants to learn about BDSM.

We have alot of people asking about doing a slave training course we are busy with one as we speak/type, it's designed to teach you from the basics, and to let you ease into the harder stuff, as you get more comfortable with it.

It teaches you slowly from the very basics, it's even fun and interesting to do, and we hope we can make a success out of it like we have with the submissive courses.

The reason for this blog is to do some of the stuff on here to help slave's, and if you want to do the course just email me at slavecourse@gmail.com

I hope you enjoy this blog as I go through some of the tasks and info, and dont forget to follow us and you welcome to try some of the stuff on your own.

Not all of this content belongs to me some of it is taken from the internet and some pictures, I do not claim to own everything on this blog.

I hope this blog will teach you some things that you wanted to learn. If there is anything you would like to learn please feel free to e mail us.