The slave collar

In a BDSM context, a collar is a device of any material worn by a person around the neck to indicate their slave or slave status in a BDSM relationship. A person wearing a collar to symbolize their relationship with another is said to be collared. Some people conduct formal "collaring ceremonies," which are regarded as effectively solemnizing their relationship in a similar way as a marriage ceremony and the collar having similar significance as a wedding ring. The standard form of a collar is a black leather band around the neck, often with metal D-rings added to allow the attachment of a leash, rope or other restraints; but to be more discreet in public, some people may wear an ordinary choker or jewellery necklace for the same symbolic purpose.

Collars may be used in role-playing games involving erotic humiliation because they have connotations of control and pet-like status, especially when worn with a leash.

Formal collar this collar which is often known as the slave collar, is the ultimate goal and final step in an M/s relationship.

A formal collar shows devotion, mutual respect, and expresses the fact that the Master and slave have the same ideals and desires.

In giving this collar, the Master shows His commitment to care for the slave, and will be responsible for her.

Being collared can mean many things to many different Masters and slaves, for some it is a new beginning in a journey, for others it is a step in the training process. It all depends on the Master you are with. Because all Masters, have different ways of doing things with His slave.

Acceptance of this collar by the slave, is an offering of her complete submission to her Master, she gives the whole girl to him, heart, mind body and soul, and trusts Him to with her life.

Here is some common ground when it comes to protocol:

A collar is given by a Master and is received by a slave.
A collared slave should be considered off-limits to all others.
A collar should only be removed by the Master at the end of the journey.
A collar isn’t something you collect.
A collar has definite meaning to both the Master and the slave.
A collar is something to be cherished and respected just like any other type of union. A collar is sacred.
The collar remains the property of the Master and should be given back in the event the journey ends.
A collar and the person wearing it should be treated with respect as a collar is not a toy.

The most important thing to remember in all of this is that a collar is something that you should treasure.

Some Masters may not even use what we all commonly think of as a collar, but they would rather use a definitive mark such as a permanent tattoo or a piercing some Masters even rather use jewellery.

A formal collar is often given at a ceremony in front of friends and other BDSM community members. It is a deeply emotional and heartfelt time for both Master and His slave, and it is an honour to be invited to such a ceremony.

A slave can also have a necklace that can be worn in the vanilla world as an every day collar that works with your slave’s personal clothing style and other jewellery, and won’t bring attention to what it is or look out of place the way a leather one would.
For a slave to have a collar and know what it means to feel it being placed around her neck to have it there all day to see it in the mirror, is all the reminder your slave needs to know and feel owned by her Master.

Basically, the best feeling a slave will have ever.

Be proud to have your Masters collar on always, as commitment is a vital part of any M/s relationship, and the giving and wearing of a collar brings forth the level of commitment and the depth of the relationship, between the Master and the slave. A collar is not a fashion accessory and should never be viewed as such.

What does it mean to you as a slave to be collared?
How did you get to the point of being collared?
How did you earn your collar?

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